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10 Movies About Motherhood to Watch on a Cozy Night In
Looking for cozy inspiration? Here are 10 movies about motherhood every mom should watch — funny, heartfelt, and deeply relatable for working mothers.
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
3 days ago3 min read


Why Taking Time Off Work Away From Home is Essential for Family & Self-Care
Discover why real rest means taking time off work away from home. Learn how vacations boost family time, reduce stress, and help you recharge.
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
Aug 172 min read


How to Navigate Financial Stress as a Working Mom
Financial stress can be overwhelming for working moms. Learn practical tips to manage money anxiety, budget wisely, and prepare for the future—no matter the season.
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
Aug 102 min read


Why Parenting Feels So Hard (And Why It’s Supposed To Be)
Why is motherhood so hard? Discover why parenting challenges us at every level and how today’s intentional moms are embracing growth over control. Learn how to parent with patience, faith, and emotional awareness—even when it feels impossible.
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
Aug 32 min read


Traditional Parenting vs Modern Roles: Why Shared Parenting Is the New Standard
Explore the shift from traditional parenting roles to modern, shared responsibilities. Learn how moms and dads can work together and start the conversation at home.
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
Jul 273 min read


What to Do When You’re Emotionally Drained: Tips for Tired Moms
Feeling drained and overwhelmed as a mom? Learn how emotional exhaustion shows up, what it means, and how to care for yourself when you're running on empty.
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
Jul 202 min read


Feeling Stuck in Your 9-5 as a Mom? Here’s What to Do Before You Quit
Feeling stuck in your 9-5 job as a mom? You're not alone. Here’s a real-life look at navigating burnout, building an exit plan, and finding peace while staying put — for now.
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
Jul 173 min read


Mid-Year Check-In: What If the Shift Is the Plan?
We’re halfway through 2025, and I don’t know about you, but this year didn’t unfold quite the way I imagined it would.
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
Jul 82 min read


Messy Moms Are Going Viral—And Honestly, It’s About Time
Moms, in all their realness, rawness, and yes, messiness, are finally stepping into the spotlight. Not the Pinterest-perfect, color-coded motherhood. The kind where the dishes aren’t done, the laundry is multiplying like rabbits, and the toddler just drew on the wall while you were on a call.
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
Jun 293 min read


I Wrote a Book: The Lazy Mom’s Guide to Motherhood
What started as a personal rebellion against burnout turned into a full transformation. Motherhood was never supposed to feel like martyrdom. And the more I unlearned, the more I realized…I wasn’t lazy. I was tired. I was overwhelmed. I was doing too many of the wrong things.
The Lazy Mom’s Guide is my way of helping other moms break free, too, from shame, from perfectionism, and from that toxic idea that “rest equals failure.”
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
Jun 222 min read


Celebrating Father's Day: Encouraging Presence, Healing, and Partnership
Today is Father’s Day, and I want to take a moment to honor all the men who are showing up for their children—even when it’s hard, even when they didn’t have a blueprint, even when they’re learning as they go.
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
Jun 152 min read


How Moms Can Ask for Help Without Guilt or Conflict
You are the default. The planner. The "rememberer". The one who anticipates, organizes, soothes, nurtures, schedules, and sacrifices. And when you’re the one holding everything together, it can start to feel like asking for help is just one more thing to manage.
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
Jun 83 min read


Saying No Like a Lazy Mom: Because Your Time Is Too Valuable for BS
Every “yes” you give out of guilt is a “no” to your peace.
Every commitment you make under pressure is a withdrawal from your energy.
Every time you say yes when your spirit is screaming no, that’s not kindness. That’s self-abandonment.
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
May 302 min read


How Lazy Moms Lighten the Load: Smart Ways to Simplify Your Daily Life
I’m not the most domestic person. Yes, I love home decor — give me a good throw pillow or a new way to style a bookshelf and I’m in my zone. But cooking, cleaning, doing laundry?
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
May 183 min read


Doing Less, Raising More: Why Lazy Moms Don’t Do It All (and That’s the Point)
When we step back, we’re not disappearing — we’re making room for our kids to step up. Whether it’s letting your toddler sweep with a mini broom, your 8-year-old pack their lunch, or your teen figure out how to manage their time — that space is a gift.
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
May 113 min read


The Supermom Lie: And Why Lazy Motherhood Is the Truth We Need
The mom who has it all together —organized home, packed lunches, neatly dressed kids, thriving career, perfect Instagram grid, and somehow still finds time to bake banana bread and train for a marathon.
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
May 72 min read


Introducing the Lazy Mom Lifestyle: Why Doing Less Isn’t Failing — It’s Freedom
Somewhere along the way, the joy of being a mom gets buried under the endless "shoulds."
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
Apr 272 min read


What to Do When You Outgrow What You Once Chose
Ten years ago, I took a job that made perfect sense for my life at the time.
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
Apr 203 min read


The Ugly Red: What No One Talks About When You're a Grown Woman on Her Period
This isn’t my usual blog post.
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
Apr 133 min read


Setting Intentions for Moms: A Simple 3-Step Method to Stay Aligned
At Efitmi, we believe in intentions over pressure. It’s not about hustling harder, it’s about aligning your day-to-day life
Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
Apr 93 min read
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