10 Motherhood Books on My Reading List (and Why You’ll Love Them Too)
- Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
- Sep 14
- 3 min read
Updated: Dec 7
Motherhood isn’t just about raising kids—it’s also about raising ourselves in the process. I want my children to grow into kind, capable, and resilient people. The best way to teach that is by modeling it myself. Parenting doesn’t come with a manual. Yes, we may have natural instincts to protect and nurture our children, but knowing how to do it well is a skill we have to learn. That’s why I’m always reading (or listening to) books that stretch me as a mom and as a woman. The more I grow, the better example I can set.
10 Must-Read Motherhood Books
Here are 10 motherhood books currently on my reading list that I believe can benefit you too.
1. Raising Mentally Strong Kids — Daniel G. Amen, MD & Charles Fay, PhD
This one blends brain science with Love & Logic strategies to help kids grow into confident, resilient humans. It’s not about raising “perfect” children, but strong ones. Honestly, the calmer and stronger the kids, the calmer and stronger mom feels too.

2. The Lazy Genius Way — Kendra Adachi
Kendra teaches you how to be a “genius” about what matters and “lazy” about what doesn’t. It’s like the handbook for moms who want balance without the burnout—something every Lazy Mom (myself included) needs in her back pocket.

3. How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk — Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish
This classic is a lifesaver for communication struggles. It gives you practical, simple phrases and tools to help your kids feel heard—and to help you keep your sanity.

4. Untamed — Glennon Doyle
This book isn’t just about parenting—it’s about reclaiming yourself. Glennon’s story reminds us that our voice, dreams, and joy still matter, even in the middle of motherhood.

5. The 5 Love Languages of Children — Gary Chapman & Ross Campbell
When you know your child’s love language, you stop spinning your wheels on what doesn’t connect and start pouring into what actually matters. Efficiency in love? Very Lazy Mom approved.

6. The Lazy Mom’s Guide to Motherhood — Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
This is mine, but it belongs on the list because it’s written from the trenches. It’s not about “perfect mom life”—it’s about embracing the messy, funny, and honest parts of motherhood, while letting go of guilt and pressure.

7. 13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don’t Do — Amy Morin
This book flips the script from “what to do” to “what not to do,” and sometimes that’s more freeing. Amy lays out habits we need to avoid if we want to raise resilient, independent kids.

8. All Joy and No Fun: The Paradox of Modern Parenthood — Jennifer Senior
This one digs into how parenting changes us—not just the kids. Jennifer explores the tension between joy and stress, and why motherhood feels so rewarding yet so exhausting. Relatable? Absolutely.

9. Little Fires Everywhere — Celeste Ng
A beautifully layered novel about motherhood, identity, and the choices we make. It dives into what it means to be a “good mom,” and how perfection often hides cracks beneath the surface.

10. Love You Forever — Robert Munsch
This iconic storybook captures the unconditional (and sometimes exhausting!) cycle of motherhood. It’s a sweet read with your kids that also tugs at your heartstrings—reminding us why the tough days are still worth it.

Why These Made My List
Each of these books shows a different side of motherhood—practical tools, cultural insights, fictional explorations, or just a reminder to breathe and laugh. They’re not about doing it all; they’re about doing what matters most.
Embracing the Journey
Motherhood is a journey filled with ups and downs. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed sometimes. We all do. The key is to find what resonates with you and your family. These books can offer guidance, comfort, and a sense of community.
And if you want a cozy, honest read to start with, check out my own book: The Lazy Mom’s Guide to Motherhood. It’s a love letter to moms who are tired of guilt and ready to enjoy the journey.
Disclosure: Some of the links in this post are affiliate links. That means if you decide to purchase through them, I may earn a small commission—at no extra cost to you. It’s one more way to support the Lazy Mom movement while grabbing books you'll truly love.
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