I’m not the most domestic person. Yes, I love home decor — give me a good throw pillow or a new way to style a bookshelf and I’m in my zone. But cooking, cleaning, doing laundry?

The mom who has it all together —organized home, packed lunches, neatly dressed kids, thriving career, perfect Instagram grid, and somehow still finds time to bake banana bread and train for a marathon.

Somewhere along the way, the joy of being a mom gets buried under the endless "shoulds."