Keeping the Joy Alive: Lessons from the Holiday Season
- Shelleka Powell-Tomlinson
- Dec 30, 2024
- 3 min read
The holidays come and go in a flurry of activities, but they leave behind something truly special—a sense of kindness, connection, and gratitude. For many of us, the holiday season is a time of giving, reflection, and quality moments with loved ones. But what if we didn’t let that spirit fade as the calendar turns to a new year?

As we approach 2025, let’s explore how to carry the lessons and joy of the holiday season into the rest of the year.
Lesson 1: Kindness Is Contagious
The holiday season reminds us of the profound impact small acts of kindness can have on others. Whether it’s buying a coffee for a stranger, donating to a shelter, or simply offering a warm smile, kindness is powerful—and it doesn’t have to be seasonal.
How to Carry It Forward:
Schedule one random act of kindness every month, like leaving a generous tip or writing a heartfelt note to someone.
Get the family involved by creating a kindness jar, where everyone contributes ideas for thoughtful gestures year-round.
Reflection: Kindness not only uplifts others but also enriches your own sense of purpose and fulfillment.
Lesson 2: Connection Strengthens Relationships
During the holidays, we prioritize gathering with loved ones and rekindling bonds. This focus on connection reminds us that our relationships are one of the most valuable parts of life.
How to Carry It Forward:
Set up regular check-ins with friends and family. A simple text, call, or coffee date goes a long way.
Create small, recurring traditions, like Sunday family dinners or seasonal outings, to keep the spirit of togetherness alive.
Reflection: Strong relationships are built on consistent effort, not just grand gestures.
Lesson 3: Gratitude Cultivates Joy
Gratitude is at the heart of the holiday season, whether it’s appreciating the gifts we give and receive or cherishing time spent with loved ones. Gratitude has the power to shift your mindset and bring joy to even the busiest days.
How to Carry It Forward:
Start a gratitude journal where you list three things you’re thankful for each day or week.
Share gratitude out loud—tell people in your life what you appreciate about them.
Reflection: Gratitude is like a muscle—the more you practice it, the stronger your sense of joy becomes.
Intentions for the New Year
Carrying the holiday spirit into the new year isn’t about grand resolutions; it’s about small, intentional changes that bring more kindness, connection, and gratitude into your life. As you reflect on the past year, take some time to set meaningful goals for 2025.
Your Tools for Success:
My Vision Board Journal is designed to help you get clear on your dreams and goals while keeping you motivated throughout the year.
Download my free 2025 Calendar and Monthly Planner Printable PDF to stay organized and intentional as you work toward those goals.
Reflection: A clear vision and consistent action are key to building the life you desire.
Final Thoughts
The holiday season teaches us valuable lessons about kindness, connection, and gratitude. As we step into 2025, let’s hold onto these lessons and make them part of our everyday lives. Because when we carry the spirit of the holidays with us, we’re not just creating a better year for ourselves—we’re spreading that joy to everyone around us.
Start 2025 with clarity and intention! Download my 2025 Calendar and Monthly Planner and grab a copy of my Vision Board Journal on Amazon to turn your dreams into reality. Let’s make this our best year yet!
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